(Recovered now, I am able at last to continue the story of our U.S. travels. This is a long tale so settle in with a cuppa, some biscuits (cookies) and put your feet up! Travel along with us from here to there and back again: from Europe to America, through three states in three weeks, and back to Europe.)
While in Portland we visited Powell's City of Books! This Portland icon takes up two city blocks,68,000 sq. feet, is four stories tall, has eleven different color coded sections, and stocks one million new, used, and rare books on the premises! Powells is one of the biggest independent bookstores in the world, open every day of the year. Powells now has stores in five locations including Portland International airport. The web site offers stock from five warehouses and approximately four millions books. One can also find exclusive author interviews, essays, a blog and a stable of international book reviewers. As I said to Les, "If I lived here (meaning Oregon) I would live here!"
After enjoying nearly a week with the newlyweds Sparky and Kelli, and their room mate Mary, it was time to go. On a last night whim, my daughter and I stopped into her favorite tattoo parlor and got matching tattoos to commemorate the memory of my mother Florence Fay. Mom's nickname was ladybug--so we each had a ladybug tattooed on us; Spark has hers behind her left ear, for her grandmother's spirit still whispers to her every now and then. Mine is on my right hand, in plain sight so I think of mom each time I see it. We only wish Jesse had been with us when we did it.
After a quick good-bye at Portland's Union Rail Station, tickets in hand Les and I checked our bags and boarded the train for Tacoma, Washington. I love traveling by train in America. At a max speed of seventy nine miles an hour the pace is fast enough to cover some ground while still allowing passengers to enjoy the sites along their journey.
We relaxed in our comfortable seats and enjoyed the watery view. The North Cascades route crosses two large rivers--the Willamette in Portland and a few miles north it crosses the mighty Columbia as it broadens out to an estuary emptying into the Pacific ocean, marking the east-west boundary of Washington and Oregon.
|Portland, Oregon's Willamette River is criss-crossed with bridges!|
|Tug boat on the Willamette River, seen from the train window.|
|Lower Puget sound from the train|
As we traveled along Les spotted container ships bringing cargo into the Port of Tacoma, and battle ships moored up along the way as well. Wildlife abounds here and we were fortunate to spy a magnificent bald Eagle fishing as we passed.
|One of the many timber yards and saw mills along the way.|
|Ferry ships docked in the Sound and waiting for passengers.|
|Military ships at dock in Puget Sound.|
|Tanker arriving at the Port of Tacoma, Washington in the Puget Sound.|
|Looking across The Sound to the Tacoma Narrows bridge in the distance.|
|As the train goes underneath one gets a close up of this amazing twin suspension bridge|
Our approach to Tacoma by train took us under the beautiful Tacoma Narrows suspension bridge. On hand to pick us up was our dear friend Reverend Patti Gora-McRavin, or the Rev as we affectionately call her. Patti married us up on Kamiak Butte and her husband Steve walked me up the trail to Les and the waiting group at our wedding site. He also handed me over to the groom. Theirs is a union meant to be, a love story which underwrote mine and Les' union. Such is the power of karma!
We stayed one night with Patti and Steve which was not nearly long enough but we did have a wonderful dinner and the opportunity to see their lovely home and yard, take a walk around their neighborhood of Spanaway, and catch up with their lives.
Patti is a tireless defender of the environment, taking on field burning, mainly by grass seed producers in Eastern Washington and North Idaho. She has managed to wrangle both sides into court for a positive outcome which underwrites the health of those who suffer and die from the air pollution caused by field burning. Patti's own life path and personal outlook have brought her to Russia to speak on behalf of the earth and those who cannot lobby government successfully on their own behalf. Having spent much of this year and last dealing with the death of her father, her mother's ill health and need to leave the family home and go into care back in the Midwest, Patti is also in need of respite and rest.
Steve continues to teach and advise students for the Automotive Department at South Puget Sound Community College. As an academic who is in it for his students, his world view is shaped by having grown up in the Jim Crow South. Raised by an extended family that included amazing grandparents, Steve is a Viet Nam Veteran who fought for his country even though this country refused to acknowledge his worth and dignity as a human being or his rightful place in its society. Steve is a man of rare honor. His world view is also shaped by time spent traveling and living abroad in Northern Europe, therefore he lacks the myopic viewpoint so many Americans seem to have about the U.S.
Together Patti and Steve have interesting, insightful, far reaching stories about human nature and the larger world to share. Les and I settled in with gusto for an evening filled with tales of human nature, politics, American history, and philosophy.
After a delicious breakfast and a leisurely morning gathered around the couch chatting, reading the newspaper and enjoying some much needed rest, we were off again that afternoon.
|The "Rev", Patti Gora McRavin.|
|Les and Steve McRavin looking over something of interest as we rested and relaxed.|
They took us to one of their favorite local diners. As we sat eating our delicious dinners I was struck by thoughts of Javi, sitting across from us now as a man, but I remembered him when he was a sweet, dreamy eyed little boy of eight. I felt old and tired as we headed for Adelina's house in Lake Forest Park near the northern tip of Lake Washington where we slept deeply on her guest room bed, woke to a liesurely morning with fresh brewed coffee and washed a load of laundry.
One of my dearest and oldest sister friends, Adelina and I found each other at University and have been tight ever since. The connection we have goes beyond words.
This visit underscored a change in my friend. Usually there is always an effervescent snap in Adelina's dark eyes signalling a lively curiosity and interest in the world at large and the moment in particular. I was aware of aching grief in her soul; the crackling humor was gone from her countenance. In its place was a dear, dear face, sober eyes backed with sadness.
The untimely death of her oldest daughter earlier in the year has taken its toll. Adelina has been forced by circumstances to travel to a land where none ever willingly goes. The loss of a child throws the world out of balance and breaks the natural progression of our lives. Across an ocean in another country when it happened, I could not go to her--all I could do was send flowers and talk on the phone.
As a union organizer, Adelina is currently bargaining for Harborview Medical Center staff. Harborview is the premier trauma center in the Pacific Northwest and this is a major contract, the negotiation of which has swallowed my friend's life and kept her extremely busy.
How I wish for her, someone like Dear Sir who would be a true partner in her life--ssomeone equal to all the divine, amazing, and wonderful assets Adelina carries within; someone whose arms could hold her and all of her sorrows so she would not have to bear them alone.
The next afternoon we went to lunch and then Adelina was kind enough to drive us all the way in to SEATAC International Airport where we caught an Alaska Air express flight to Spokane, Washington on the east side of the state, flying across the snow capped peaks of the north Cascade mountains and beyond to the arid high desert country of Eastern Washington.
While waiting for our flight in Seattle, Les struck up a conversation with a couple who shared our table in the food lounge. They were traveling home to Juneau, Alaska. As Alaskans born and raised, we had a lovely chinwag about our mutual experiences.
As we rose to vacate our table during the busy evening dinner hour, an airport worker took the chance to grab our seat, meal in hand, and smiled at us. As we chatted with this gentleman he told is he was born and raised in Chile and had lived in London for many years before coming State-side to work for a local airline. It is indeed, a small world!
|The tiny trouble twins as we were known on campus at Eastern Washington University, where we met twenty two years ago. Me and Adelina Gonzales at lunch.|
|A view of traffic on Interstate 5 (I-5) which travels from The Canadian border to Mexico through the Pacific north and western state of America. Adelina commutes in this nearly every day!|
|A new idea since I was last in the States: a cell phone lot where folks can park and wait for a phone call informing them their loved ones have arrived, collected their baggage, and are waiting at the curb for pick up. Brilliant!!|
|Inside SEATAC--Seattle-Tacoma International Airport, where we sat talking with strangers and waiting for our flight to Spokane, Washington.|
|The ford Focus we rented for two weeks. Les managed to get it for an amazing $404.00/£260.00 and no excess charge!|
We arrived at our friend Kialynn's house, unloaded our luggage for a four day stay and settled down for a lively evening chat.
Kialynn and I had planned a Wednesday Women's' dinner for our visit and we were looking forward to spending Wednesday morning together, shopping at Costco and cooking in her beautifully remodeled kitchen.
We also planned an impromptu dinner for Thursday evening with Kialynn and her partner Harry Merrick. We last saw Harry just before we left for England fourteen months ago. Les enjoyed chatting with him and hearing all his wonderful tales, many of which were published in several volumes Harry wrote and Kialynn edited. Harry's health was not great these days and he was confined to home more now. An evening out with us would be a treat for all concerned.
|Kialynn making us fruit smoothies for breakfast|
Me and Dear sir drove out to visit my favorite oldest daughter Jesseca, her husband Ben and their three sons, Michael, Matthew, and Connor who had recently moved from the small hamlet of Fairfield to a new apartment in Spokane Valley.
We spent the day playing with the boys, chatting with Jesse, (Ben had to work), and enjoying a delicious meal with our family.
|Eight year old Matthew or Mash for short, playing a video game while his baby brother Connor watches.|
|My little Mikey Boy--Michael was my first grandchild. Now at thirteen he stands taller than his Mim.|
|The mighty god Thor with his hammer--taking a well deserved juice break.|
Opening the door to Kialynn's, she called out to me, and I found her in her bedroom. Harry had died in his sleep earlier that afternoon and she had only just returned from his house. That explained my strange anxiety for her which had sprung unexpectedly earlier in the day and grown with the darkening hours!
We sat on the couch for several hours while Kialynn talked about Harry, reminiscing in between silences when she slipped away somewhere else in her head. A visit from her grandson and his wife who came to keep Kialynn company was our cue to slip away to bed while they reminsced. No strangers to the death of loved ones, Les and I were grateful the timing of our trip allowed us to be there with her in those initial days after Harry died.
Though we offered to cancel dinner on Tuesday, Kialynn wanted to go ahead with it, so we shopped, and I cooked while Les and Kialynn kept me company in the kitchen. The phone rang endlessly with friends offering condolences and asking about funeral arrangements.
Finally evening arrived and brought Rhea Giffin and Gina Brooks from North Idaho, Rosemarie Duffy and Marian Moos, and Lisa Conger. The Wednesday Women were in full congregation, with strong, warm hugs of sympathy for Kialynn and excitement to see me and Les.
We worked our way through Hunter's Chicken, tossed green salad with poppy seed dressing, rolls, and green beans with bacon and onions. We laughed, talked and shared through a dessert of Chocolate Kahlua cake and glasses Almond Rocha liquor and coffee. Too soon it was time for my dear sisters to go.
Thursday came to us bright and fair with warmer weather melting the gathered snow. Kialynn made us delicious blackberry smoothies, teaching me how to do it so I could make them on the boat for me and Dear Sir who was quickly becoming addicted to the fruity breakfast drinks.
With toast and tea in our bellies as well, we drove into Spokane to take a walk around The Falls and enjoy Riverfront Park before joining our good friends Sara Edlin and Bill Marlowe for lunch. I had two very old hard cover books of George Bernard Shaw's plays brought from England for them. I found the two books in a charity shop and knew as theater people they would enjoy having them.
Lunch at my favorite Spokane restaurant Europa Pizzeria went all too fast. Bill was directing Hamlet at the Spartan Theater and he offered us free tickets for that evening. Upon checking with Kialynn who wanted to attend, we did indeed see Hamlet--Les' first foray into Shakespeare.
Before returning to Kialynn's I drove to Spokane Public Radio and took Les up to the public radio station where I had worked amongst some very talented and eccentric characters for five years. It was amazing to me how little had changed since I left in 2000. My desk in the lobby was still where I had last moved it--only the tall corn plant next to it was gone.
Les enjoyed meeting all and sundry along with a tour of the facilities. It was a blast from my past and a chance to share with Les a chapter in my life before we met.
After a tearful goodbye the next morning, we left Spokane, stopped for a short visit with Jesse, Ben and the boys and then headed south for Pullman, stopping in Spangle at the Harvester for lunch. This was the diner where Les first met Jesse and her family on the last morning of his first visit in 2010. It has been a regional landmark for over thirty years, serving delicious, fresh country meals, American style and is full of great memories for me.
Les drove the rest of the way to Pullman as I fell asleep from exhaustion next to him. We pulled into the driveway of Curtis Castle as our friends Cheri (Bear or Little Bear as she is nicknamed) and Jerry Curtis call their home, and quickly my dear friend Bear had me wrapped in a true Bear hug!! Dinner was REAL Mexican food (and no, I am not convinced it is available in England; Spanish, yes, Mexican, no) at Nuevo Vallarta, satisfying one of my two main food cravings.
Sunday afternoon we drove out to Chrisi and Keith Kincaid's farm and enjoyed a marvelous wood fired pizza party with fifteen of friends! Bless Chrisi's heart for hosting this gathering the week before cooking a massive thanksgiving for her family, and her amazing mother Sandy Field for helping make it all happen.
|The Kincaid wood fired pizza oven, hand built and delivering amazing pizzas to our table!|
Serious shopping ensued with a list of American items I wanted to being back--from Crocs for me and Les to food items like Graham Cracker crumbs and Lipton Onion Soup Mix--and an American broom. We added our burden of items to the new clothes and down jackets I bought for me and Les from LL Bean.
We renewed my driver's license, met friends for coffee, and cooked Bangers and Mash for dinner so Cheri and Jerry could sample British cuisine. In the evenings we played Phase Ten, laughing and enjoying one another's company.
|Cheri Curtis gives Les a massage with their new professional massage machine (comes complete with kickstand and detachable handle bars!)|
Our lovely friends Joe and Sally Horton live just down the lane from the Curtis'. We were all invited to dinner--and it was marvelous! Sally, Scottish by birth, American by choice, made shepherds pie for us. We stuffed ourselves and then had to make room for Joe's famous carrot cake which is the best in the known universe, accompanied by wee drams of Drambuie. Much revelry and a great time was had by all.
We visited WSU's campus but it was Thanksgiving break and the campus was nearly deserted. We stopped by the Motor Pool to say hello to Shirley Collier who follows our blogs and who cheerfully provided me with a lovely, safe, and clean vehicle to drive whenever I had to travel for work. She is one of those folks who make the University community such a great place of which to be a part.
We dropped into Van Doren Hall to see the advising suite where I spent ten years working with distance degree seeking students and online learners, touching bases with many of my former colleagues, seeing long overdue changes to the building, and sharing quick chats about life abroad on a narrow boat.
Les and I stopped by Ferdinand's Creamery on campus for the world's best ice cream. As we licked the creamy goodness piled in our cones my mind traveled back to years of daily lunches with Bear and Bobbi, laughing until everyone around us took notice and wondered what three WSU employees at lunch could find so hilarious and entertaining. If only they knew!!!
I thought with pride of my service to the WSU community over the years on a variety of committees across campus.
I remembered standing under the wind sculpture on the roof of the library--my favorite place on campus--with its views of Kamiak Butte, the distant Blue Mountains of Oregon, Moscow, Idaho and nearby small towns like Palouse; watching Independence Day fireworks there, knowing the park was rammed with fifty thousand people and I had the grassy library roof to myself, with fireworks lighting up the night sky.
I recalled driving to the Moscow Farmer's Market every Saturday from March to October, stopping by Wheatberries Bakery for a freshly baked cheese pocket, ordering a latte from One World Cafe and sitting on the bench under the Linden trees waiting for the 8 a.m. bell to ring, signalling the market was open for business; sharing the joys of market days with my grandsons as we made a beeline from the market to Hodgsons drugs for old fashioned toys, the Idaho Gem shop to see raw rocks and the incredible gems hewn from them and polished to sparkling beauty, alongside cases of fossils including huge fossilized shark's teeth, and the gem case guarded by a live rattle snake!
I lingered over the memory of shopping with Les for his grandchildren on his first trip to visit, and our weekly rounds as we settled in as newlyweds to await my visa.
I have treasured memories of Les' visits to the brown bears at the WSU research center, the endless miles of dirt back roads we drove on scorchingly hot, sunny days looking for--whatever came across our path: deer, coyotes, red tailed hawks, owls. Sitting on the benches at Sunnyside Park as the summer sun set, watching in amazement as hundreds of bats fluttered through the air over the pond, swooping gracefully all around us in the dusk as one by one lights winked on in houses across the folded Palouse hills, and Kamiak Butte slipped out of view in the dark. My one regret is that the weather didn't break long enough for us to climb Kamiak again. I so wanted to visit our wedding place and look out one more time across the endless vista of the Palouse.
Before we knew it Thanksgiving arrived (Thursday, November 22nd) and it was time to sort and pack our luggage for the final leg of our trip.
The drive out to the Turnbow family ranch near De Smet, Idaho took us past the turn off to Pullman Albion Road and Cloudhouse. I couldn't visit it again. I had no desire to see my lovely home after a year in the hands of others; better to remember it as I left it, filled with memories of my children coming home for visits, friends coming out for meals and a movie, the last home I shared with my darling cat Sianna before she died; watching the geese take off and land on the nearby lagoon, ruffling my hair as they flew over my back deck; laying on the grass under a late summer's evening sky with my grandsons, watching meteor showers; fighting ovarian cancer with two years of alternative therapy while my friends and community rallied around me to support my fight; finding narrow boats and the canals, which led me to Dear Sir; his visit to Cloudhouse as my friend and the best week of my life to that point; falling in love with Les, talking for hours in the gathering dark while sitting in front of the fire in my favorite chair; Les' return in February 2011 and his proposal; our first Valentines Day together; our love story winding out across two continents, anchored on one side by my life in Cloudhouse.
Soon enough we arrived at the ranch, very warmly welcomed by Lael and Larry who happens to be Cheri's younger brother. This is her family's ranch and we are blessed to be folded into the Turnbow family as they gathered to celebrate Thanksgiving.
Soon enough friends and family arrived: Cheri and Larry's mom Dory, who grew up on the ranch, and their dad Chuck Turnbow, both in their eighties, driving in from Lewiston fifty miles away. We love Dory's ranch stories and Chuck's mischievous expressions, sly jokes, and funny tales.
Carol Thompson arrived with a shy smile. She is the neighboring rancher who reminds us of Barbara Stanwyck in Big Valley. She owns 2200 hundred acres and ranches several hundred head of Angus cattle. Renowned for her good name and even better stock amongst cattlemen and ranchers across the Western U.S., Carol is quiet, humble, hard working, and down to earth. She loves her cows and the outdoors. It was lovely indeed to see her face across the Thanksgiving table.
Other friends old and new joined us and soon we were tucking into a feast of roasted Turkey, mashed potatoes, gravy, fresh baked rolls, sweet potato balls, green bean casserole, leaded and unleaded stuffing (leaded includes turkey giblets and oysters, unleaded is without), pickles, black olives, and fruit salad. Dessert included Apple, Pumpkin, or Blackberry-Cherry pies made with loving care by Lael.
I was so grateful to be seated amongst friends who are like family to me, as we gathered together. I felt touched and thankful for good health, a loving husband, children who are happily mated and making productive lives; healthy, happy grandchildren, acceptance by Les' family as one of their own, and for dear friends far and wide--in America and in Britain. I was humbled with happiness at having found my place in this world--in the greater scheme of things. As Thanksgiving Day 2012 closed, Cheri Curtis and I hugged each other tightly and cried on each others shoulders.
We are sisters for sure--separate sides of the same coin, joined at the heart. She taught my heart how to trust people--a change that needed to occur to me in preparation for meeting Les. Bear needed me to make this trip, as much as my daughters and my other friends did. Everyone wanted to know for sure that I made the right choice and I was happy married to Les, living on a boat in another country.
Larry and Lael put us up in a sweet cabin across the driveway from their house. It had a bedroom with a great bed, a composting loo, and a small fridge. Upstairs Lael's loft is where she nurtures her creativity making art and dreams come alive.
|The cabin at the ranch.|
|Filled with art and a gorgeous shuffleboard table Larry made, the cabin is a comfy place.|
|Our cabin bower|
|View of Larry and Lael's ranch from our bedroom window|
|Another view looking across the ranch towards the field where Elk come to feed|
|©Copyright 1996-2007 Andy Sewell|
Larry is a very fine wood-crafter with his own custom cabinet making business on the ranch, and Lael is an artist with a degree in art history, so it is no surprise they have many friends in the local art community. We were fortunate enough to meet two of them: Water colorist Andy Sewell, and wildlife painter Dave Gressard.
While touring Andy's amazing studio I realized I knew his art from Sunset magazine. He started out as a graphic artist and branched out over the years.
My heart nearly stopped beating when I saw a photograph of the Palouse and the same view in watercolor! It was my all time favorite picture captured by Andy's master eye behind a camera and painted from the photograph.
|Andy Sewell's studio. © 2012, A. Sewell.|
|© Dave Gressard, artist|
These stamps are attached to migratory waterfowl hunting licenses and the sale of the prints raises money to purchase and conserve migratory waterfowl wildlife habitat.
|© Dave Gressard, U.S. Fish and Wildlife Service|
We enjoyed a driving tour of the local area, including a trip around the perimeter of Carol's farm and a visit to the tiny hilltop cemetery in Freeze, Idaho where Larry and Cheri's grandparents and other family members are laid to rest.
Saturday we drove North to Coeur d' Alene, Idaho for a visit to Rhea and Jim Giffin's home. Rhea is an artist and poet who works in paint and papier mache, often incorporating her poems into the very fabric of her work. Her pieces are much sought after and quite amazing. Filled with art and color, the Giffin house embraces one's senses with a huge artistic hug. Her studio is filled with pieces in the process of becoming as well as ones available for gallery display and sale.
|The front foyer at Rhea and Jim's.|
|Stairs to the second story master bedroom and bath|
|Starry stair tops!|
|Rhea in her dining room, surrounded by Art--her own and that of other artists.|
|Rhea and Jim's dining area filled with color and light|
|One of my favorite papier mache pieces titled, "Sacrificial Lamb and Fear Caller's Redemption."|
|There is even art in the yard! This is a human sized chess board with life size pieces (stored away for winter).|
|Close up of the artwork inside each can, made from the can lids!|
|Art is present in every nook and cranny of this home. I could spend hours wandering in a happy delirium from room to room and not see every piece!|
|This is a piece under construction in Rhea's studio.|
|This piece represents Rhea and Jim--and how their individual differences make up a whole synthesis of beauty.|
|Rhea and Jim in his USPS garb. He stopped by on his delivery rounds to say hello.|
|From a child on his route: Dear Mailman, I hope you drive safe."|
|One of Rhea's famed Storybowls.|
As we toured their home, I loved watching Les become enraptured by the colors, the paintings and art pieces, finding wonderment in Rhea's vision. Their home is as much a work of her art as are her individual pieces.
After a sad and tearful goodbye on Rhea and Jim's front porch Les and I hit the road again driving further north to Sandpoint, Idaho, on the banks of Lake Pen Oreille (ponderay), seventy eight miles from the Canadian border where we met with my old friends Jane Fritz and Victoria Oliver.
Jane and I met years ago when I worked at Spokane Public Radio. We bonded over a love of nature and The Goddess. I've enjoyed several lovely forays on the Clark Fork river delta in her wooden canoe, as we paddled out into Lake Pend Oreille to a special beach where we skinny dipped in the icy cold water, and lay drying on the rocks in the sun.
Jane is an author and public radio independent program producer. She has lived near Lake Pend Oreille for nigh on thirty years, becoming a stalwart thread in the interwoven life of the communities that shelter along the lake shore. Jane recently finished writing the definitive book about the lake--Legendary Lake Pend Oreille. There is something in it for everyone. It gripped me and I couldn't put it down until I finished reading it from cover to cover.
After lunch we enjoyed a walk over the Cedar Street bridge, crowded inside with holiday shoppers, then followed the trail down to the lake shore. A walk through town with stops at the local candy shop found us eventually in a tea room with hot mugs. this particular establishment had a lovely little nook in the wall with a stool and some books to pass the time. It was labeled "witch hole"!
|Inside the Cedar Creek Bridge--a covered bridge which hosts a raft of stores, Sandpoint, Idaho. I love the log architecture.|
|Vendors are readying their stalls for the holidays.|
|Looking through a side door to the creek outside.|
|The log bridge exterior.|
|Northern Idaho's stunning natural beauty, in the heart of the town of Sandpoint, Idaho.|
|My darling Les bundled up in his new down jacket, on the shore of Lake Pend Oreille.|
|A panoramic view of part of Lake Pend Oreille, Sandpoint, Idaho.|
|Pygmy owl at Larry and Lael's ranch, De Smet,Idaho. |
©2012 Les Biggs
We enjoyed kisses from their lamas, watching the tribe of barn cats Lael cares for, and Les was treated to the sight of a pygmy owl up close in a tree.
We took Les to visit rancher Carol Thompson's magnificent spread. Amidst 2,200 acres sits her dream--a 6,700 foot log cabin with a three bay garage, vaulted ceilings, six bedrooms, five baths, a huge rock fireplace, state of the art kitchen, and back veterinary room for working on calves and injured livestock. Eleven semi loads of logs were stacked and chinked to make her home stand against the frigid winds of a North Idaho winter. That night coyotes sang us to sleep as glowing silvered stars glittered in black velvet skies.
|The bowed windows of Carol Thompson's Deep Creek Angus Ranch house, built from logs.|
|The back deck|
|The vaulted log ceiling inside the great room|
|The rock fireplace in the great room|
|Rancher Carol Thompson's saddle hangs over the balustrades on the second floor of her log ranch house.|
|Larry and Lael Turnbow--two kindred spirits!|
I hadn't wanted to make this trip. I really don't like traveling--especially by plane. Les made me come back and visit for the express purpose of reassuring my loved ones that I am indeed happy as his wife and happy in our life aboard a boat in Britain.
For Dear Sir this was simply a happy trip to see friends and loved ones. For me it was a journey filled with angst. When we left the States in September 2011, it was in the throes of newly wedded rapture, overjoyed at receiving my spouse visa, anxious to begin our life together on NB Valerie.
This trip was different for me. I know I will not be back to visit for a long, long time. Travel costs too much and takes too much of a toll on me physically and emotionally. This was a journey of long goodbyes: farewell to my children and grandchildren whom I walked away from willing myself to shed no tears because I knew if I started crying I wouldn't stop; so long to friends in their eighties and nineties whom I shall in all likelihood not see again in this life; goodbye to people who filled each day of my life, before I moved to England, with friendship, laughter and loving care; colleagues and coworkers who made working for Washington State University a joy for ten years; and last but not least, farewell to a land I grew to love as much as any person. This trip left me drained and aching in my soul.
I have become aware of the change wrought in me as a result of this journey. America is a land as familiar to me as my face in the mirror but no longer feels like home. Britain is home but it is a foreign country.
For me England is a world divided by contemporary life in the mundane world: houses, cars, mortgages and jobs. Millions of people on this small island filled with rushing stress and madness, versus the slow, quiet pace of life aboard a narrow boat, cruising when and as we choose through the beauty of the canals and rivers, meeting up with other like-minded folk. I could not and would not want to exist in the the first scenario.
My heart is grateful and overflowing that I have a choice and I have found my place in the world. I am deeper in love than ever with the man who reached out across an ocean, trusted his heart, married me, and brought me home where I belong.